It was at the beginning of the third year of Robin's life when we began to
notice his autistic behavior. Minimum of communication, merely no eye
contact, no development of speech. Specialists concluded it as problems with
hearing, nobody thought that Robin is not mentally retarded as well. Good ears
examinations had to be done.
BERA
(objective ears examination) was not objective. Robin had middle ears full
of liquid, so the result was not relevant. While this state of middle ears was
long-term, the only examinations left were classic ones - testing how he
hears various kinds of sounds and observing his reactions. He was diagnosed as
having severe hearing loss. He got hearing aids (see the picture with pipe),
but we didn't reach big progress with it.
So we still did not know. He didn't react not only to sounds, but often also to
eye perceptions. Sometimes staring to one place for a long time, and also when
I waved my hand before his eyes, he didn't respond. Mental retardation,
deafness, autism? Or some combination? We didn't know. Today, we have our
opinion, although not yet objectively tested.
In December, he was on another surgery - retentio testes. His boy`s things were
found inside his belly and they gave them to the right place. And as
a bonus they mended all holes in abdominal wall - the hernias.
In
this time, Maggie began to hard work with Robin developing his skills. (From
pictures above, you can see also my efforts :-).) She teached some talking
skills, sign language, puzzles, different games developing mental skills... few
hours daily. In general, Robin learned everything very well, sometimes better,
sometimes worse. He learned well except in communication. That means that
nothing he learned, he used in common communication.
When his IQ was measured, he was given an IQ of lower average - that
was success for us. And all tests he was given and which were based on
communication, he didn't do, so if he communicates, the result would
be probably much better. He did one non-verbal task on the level of 4 and
half year (having 2 and half).